因?yàn)樘芘c女兒和女性看護(hù)角色共情對(duì)老人角色的代入感被削弱了對(duì)女兒和妻子道德綁架言語打壓(“not very intelligent like her mom)的老人不就是幾十年后我爸的樣子年輕女性在(男性)老人面前是溫柔體貼委曲求全的而年輕男性卻有對(duì)其進(jìn)行威懾性對(duì)話的可能正如我在姥爺和他的子女以及我爸和他父母身上觀察到的Caregiving experience under patriarchy is very gendered.
第三季比第二季還要無聊而且劇情基本都是jessica或者louis偏執(zhí)之類的然后理解醒悟認(rèn)錯(cuò)和好很顯然jessica很優(yōu)秀louis 的憨人人設(shè)好在理解包容否則真是挺大男子主義的而且有時(shí)候很沒有責(zé)任心 這一季不斷在放大白人化asian style看得有時(shí)候挺火大的 這季結(jié)束三個(gè)孩子已經(jīng)在不同的層次了 這一季比較有感觸是louis和jessica的這段對(duì)話: And if something's bothering you, you can just tell me. I tell you. you sure do, every day. It's hard for me,but I'll try. So go ahead.